FIVE FAVORITES THIS FRIDAY







1. AMERICAN IDOL TOP 24! I was pleased to see that ALL my favorites made it into the TOP 24!

American Idol 2011 Top 12 Guys:
*Brett Lowenstern - MY FAV since his audition!!
*Jovany Barreto
*Jacob Lusk - Amazing Talent who became a fav in Hollywood!
*Paul McDonald
*Clint Jun Gamboa
*Robbie Rosen - Another fav from auditions!
*Stefano Langone
*Jordan Dorsey
*Tim Halprin - Another early fav!
*James Durbin
*Casey Abrams - AMAZING MUSICAL TALENT!! Loved him since auditions!
*Scotty McCreery - He sounds JUST LIKE Josh Turner! CRAZY!

American Idol 2011 Top 12 Girls:
*Naima Adedap
*Julie Zorilla - LOVE HER! Reminds me of Lea Michelle (Rachel) from Glee!!!
*Karen Rodriguez - Loved her since auditions
*Lauren Turner
*Kendra Chantelle
*Ashton Jones
*Rachel Zevita - Have like her in previous seasons-SO GLAD she made it!
*Haley Reinhart
*Thia Magia - Loved her since auditions-15 years old and is AMAZING!
*Lauren Alaina Suddeth - AMAZING TALENT also 15! Loved her since audition!
*Pia Toscano
*Ta-Tynisa Wilson

I've watched Idol every season and this is the absolute MOST talent EVER in the top 24! Loving it AND the new judges!

2. My Husband! I have had a TERRIBLE week and he has kept me grounded and helped me to refocus and regroup. He's been so amazing to me this week! (Thanks baby I love you and can't imagine my life without you!) HE IS MY BEST FRIEND!


3. IT'S PAYDAY!!!


4. Getting Back Into Church As A Family!!


5. The Valentine's Date Night With My Hubby Is Being Rescheduled! Our last date night was cancelled because my dad went into the hospital and I got sick. I am in much need of some time alone with my hubby where we can actually sit at dinner and TALK! We haven' decided what else we are going to do yet. Thanks mom and dad for keeping the boys!


I am so loving my life and those in it! They are there for a reason and those who aren't...well I've come to learn there is a reason for that too even if I don't know exactly what that reason is at this time. I trust GOD knows and that is all that matters! God Bless you Friends and have a WONDERFUL weekend! XOXO



DAY 2

LOVE IS KIND

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. - Ephesians 4:32

Kindness is love in action. If patience is how love reacts in order to minimize a negative circumstance, kindness is how love acts to maximize a positive circumstance. Patience avoids a problem; kindness creates a blessing. One is preventive, the other proactive. These two sides of love are the cornerstones on which many of the other attributes we will discuss are built.

Love makes you kind. And kindness makes you likeable. When you’re kind, people want to be around you. They see you as being good to them and good for them.

The Bible keys in on the importance of kindness: “Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good repute in the sight of God and man” (Proverbs 3:3–4). Kind people simply find favor wherever they go. Even at home. But “kindness” can feel a little generic when you try defining it, much less living it. So let’s break kindness down into four basic core ingredients:

Gentleness. When you’re operating from kindness, you’re careful how you treat your spouse, never being unnecessarily harsh. You’re sensitive. Tender. Even if you need to say hard things, you’ll bend over backwards to make your rebuke or challenge as easy to hear as possible. You speak the truth in love.

Helpfulness. Being kind means you meet the needs of the moment. If it’s housework, you get busy. A listening ear? You give it. Kindness graces a wife with the ability to serve her husband without worrying about her rights. Kindness makes a husband curious to discover what his wife needs, then motivates him to be the one who steps up and ensures those needs are met—even if his are put on hold.

Willingness. Kindness inspires you to be agreeable. Instead of being obstinate, reluctant, or stubborn, you cooperate, you stay flexible. Rather than complaining and making excuses, you look for reasons to compromise and accommodate. A kind husband ends thousands of potential arguments by his willingness to listen first rather than demand his way.

Initiative. Kindness thinks ahead, then takes the first step. It doesn’t sit around waiting to be prompted or coerced before getting off the couch. The kind husband or wife will be the one who greets first, smiles first, serves first, and forgives first. They don’t require the other to get his or her act together before showing love. When acting from kindness, you see the need, then make your move. First.

Jesus creatively described the kindness of love in His parable of the Good Samaritan, found in the Bible—Luke, chapter 10. A Jewish man attacked by robbers is left for dead on a remote road. Two religious leaders, respected among their people, walk by without choosing to stop. Too busy. Too important. Too fond of clean hands. But a common man of another race—the hated Samaritans, whose dislike for the Jews was both bitter and mutual—sees this stranger in need and is moved with compassion. Crossing all cultural boundaries and risking ridicule, he stops to help the man. Bandaging his wounds and putting him on his own donkey, he carries him to safety and pays all his medical expenses out of his own pocket.

Where years of racism had caused strife and division, one act of kindness brought two enemies together. Gently. Helpfully. Willingly. Taking the initiative, this man demonstrated true kindness in every way.

Wasn’t kindness one of the key things that drew you and your spouse together in the first place? When you married, weren’t you expecting to enjoy his or her kindness for the rest of your life? Didn’t your mate feel the same way about you? Even though the years can take the edge off that desire, your enjoyment in marriage is still linked to the daily level of kindness expressed.

The Bible describes a woman whose husband and children bless and praise her. Among her noble attributes are these: “She opens her mouth in wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue” (Proverbs 31:26). How about you? How would your husband or wife describe you on the kindness meter? How harsh are you? How gentle and helpful? Do you wait to be asked, or do you take the initiative to help? Don’t wait for your spouse to be kind first.

It is difficult to demonstrate love when you feel little to no motivation. But love in its truest sense is not based on feelings. Rather, love determines to show thoughtful actions even when there seems to be no reward. You will never learn to love until you learn to demonstrate kindness.

Today's Dare

IN ADDITION TO SAYING NOTHING NEGATIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE AGAIN TODAY, DO AT LEAST ONE UNEXPECTED GESTURE AS AN ACT OF KINDNESS.

(In your Love Dare Journal or a notebook) What discoveries about love did you make today? What specifically did you do in this dare? How did you show kindness?

What is desirable in a man is his kindness. Proverbs 19:22