FRIDAY FAVORITES

It's that time again! Time for all the excitement that Friday brings. Time to look forward to the weekend and all that it holds in store. AND time for my Five Favorites!!!

1. SUBWAY COMMERCIALS! I LOVE LOVE LOVE the new Subway commercials! Joe and I absolutely crack up EVERY time one of them comes on! They are SO much better than Jared (yeah I am happy for the guy but GEEZE!) and the annoying "Five Dollar Foot Long" jingle! ENJOY! The newest one I couldn't find on the internet yet but these will do just fine!



2. OSCAR Fashions! Keeping in tradition with "5". These are my top 5 favorite looks from the Red Carpet on Oscar Night!
REESE WITHERSPOON AKA OSCAR BARBIE

NATALIE PORTMAN - A SIMPLY STUNNING MOMMY-TO-BE

GWYNETH PALTROW - THIS LOOKS LIKE LIQUID METAL! LOVE CALVIN KLEIN!

JENNIFER LAWRENCE - SEXY, SIMPLE, SHEEK! ANOTHER CALVIN KLEIN GOWN. STUNNING!

MATTHEW MCCONAUGHEY & CAMILA ALVES - MOST SEXY AND BEST DRESSED COUPLE! TOTALLY LOVE HER GOWN AND THE FACT IT HAD P0CKETS! THEY LOOK AMAZING!


3. Yesterday, one of my bestest friends, Kelly, made me her official wedding planner! MY DREAM PROFESSION! I have tried a few times to make this a FULL BLOWN hobby/side job but no such luck. This is the FIRST time I am getting to plan a wedding besides my own to Joe. I am soooo thrilled to be able to put my passions to work and so honored she has entrusted my help. She is such an amazing friend, so beautiful inside and out. I am so excited to help make her wedding dreams come true! She has also honored me by having me stand with her on her special day!



I LOVE YOU SUGARBOOGER!


A special note to Clint (the groom)...NO KELLY WILL NOT BE RIDING DOWN THE AISLE ON A TRACTOR! Just so ya know!


4. Seems that "Planning" is my thing right now for I am also planning a spring trip to Brown County for myself, Joe, our boys and Kelly and Clint. We are going to spend a long weekend in a gorgeous cabin in beautiful Brown County! I can't hardly wait! And if any of you really know me, then you know I LOVE to plan! I am looking foward to sharing Brown County with our friends!




5. FEDERAL TAX RETURN!! We got ours today and I could not be happier! I see new glasses in my future this weekend! We have it all planned out and I can't wait!




DAY 7

LOVE BELIEVES THE BEST

Love believes all things, hopes all things. – 1 Corinthians 13:7

In the deep and private corridors of your heart, there is a room. It’s called the Appreciation Room. It’s where your thoughts go when you encounter positive and encouraging things about your spouse. And every so often, you enjoy visiting this special place.

On the walls are written kind words and phrases describing the good attributes of your mate. These may include characteristics like “honest” and “intelligent,” or phrases like “diligent worker,” “wonderful cook,” or “beautiful eyes.” They are things you’ve discovered about your husband or wife that have embedded themselves in your memory. When you think about these things, your appreciation for your spouse begins to increase. In fact, the more time you spend meditating on these positive attributes, the more grateful you are for your mate.

Most things in the Appreciation Room were likely written in the initial stages of your relationship. You could summarize them as things you liked and respected about your loved one. They were true, honorable, and good. And you spent a great deal of time dwelling on them in this room … before you were married. But you may have found that you don’t visit this special room as often as you once did. That’s because there is another competing room nearby.

Down another dark corridor of your heart lies the Depreciation Room, and unfortunately you visit there as well.

On its walls are written the things that bother and irritate you about your spouse. These things were placed there out of frustration, hurt feelings, and the disappointment of unmet expectations.

This room is lined with the weaknesses and failures of your husband and wife. Their bad habits, hurtful words, and poor decisions are written in large letters that cover the walls from one end to the other. If you stay in this room long enough, you get depressed and start expressing things like, “My wife is so selfish,” or “My husband can be such a jerk.” Or maybe, “I think I married the wrong person.”

Some people write very hateful things in this room where tell-off statements are rehearsed for the next argument. Emotional injuries fester here, adding more scathing remarks to the walls. It’s where ammunition is kept for the next big fight and bitterness is allowed to spread like a disease. People fall out of love here.

But know this. Spending time in the Depreciation Room kills marriages. Divorces are plotted in this room and violent plans are schemed. The more time you spend in this place, the more your heart devalues your spouse. It begins the moment you walk in the door, and your care for them lessens with every second that ticks by.

You may say, “But these things are true!” Yes, but so are the things in the Appreciation Room. Everyone fails and has areas that need growth. Everyone has unresolved issues, hurts, and personal baggage. This is a sad aspect of being human. We all have sinned. But we have this unfortunate tendency to downplay our own negative attributes while putting our partner’s failures under a magnifying glass.

Let’s get down to the real issue here. Love knows about the Depreciation Room and does not live in denial that it exists.

But love chooses not live there.

You must decided to stop running to this room and lingering there after every frustrating event in your relationship. It does you no good and drains the joy out of your marriage.

Love chooses to believe the best about people. It gives them the benefit of the doubt. It refuses to fill in the unknowns with negative assumptions. And when our worst hopes are proven to be true, love makes every effort to deal with them and move forward. As much as possible, love focuses on the positive.

It’s time to start thinking differently. It’s time to let love lead your thoughts and your focus. The only reason you should glance in the door of the Depreciation Room is to know how to pray for your spouse. And the only reason you should ever go in this room is to write “COVERED IN LOVE” in huge letters across the walls.

It’s time to move into the Appreciation Room, to settle down and make it your home. As you choose to meditate on the positives, you will learn that many more wonderful character qualities could be written across these walls. Your spouse is a living, breathing, endless book to be read. Dreams and hopes have yet to be realized. Talents and abilities may be discovered like hidden treasure. But the choice to explore them starts with a decision by you.

You must develop the habit of reining in your negative thoughts and focusing on the positive attributes of your mate. This is a crucial step as you learn to lead your heart to truly love your spouse. It is a decision that you make, whether they deserve it or not.

TODAY'S DARE

FOR TODAY'S DARE, GET TWO SHEETS OF PAPER. ON THE FIRST ONE, SPEND A FEW MINUTES WRITING OUT POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE. THEN DO THE SAME WITH NEGATIVE THINGS ON THE SECOND SHEET.
FOR ANOTHER DAY THERE IS A DIFFERENT PURPOSE AND PLAN FOR EACH.
AT SOME POINT DURING THE REMAINDER OF THE DAY, PICK A POSITIVE ATTRIBUTE FROM THE FIRST LIST AND THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR HAVING THIS CHARACTERISTIC.

(In your Love Dare Journal or a notebook) Which list was easier to make? What did this reveal about your thoughts? What attribute did you thank your spouse for having?

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND EVERYONE!